“It was anonymous, and of course, it revealed lots that we didn’t know — but it was also very abusive and extremely hurtful,” she told The Sun.
Express.co.uk has previously contacted Ben Ofoedu’s representatives for comment.
Ben and Vanessa have been together since 2005 and made regular appearances together both on-screen and in magazines.
Vanessa revealed that they had broken up last Saturday.
She said: “I had thought it might take a bit longer before this came out because it’s a lot to deal with — a shock like this takes some adjusting to — but I am extremely sad and disappointed that my 16-year relationship with Ben is over.”
Confirming their split to The Sun on Sunday, Vanessa added: “Who knew I’d be single at 60?
“However, ladies, it’s onwards and upwards and I firmly believe that the best is yet to come.”
